Evangelizing Moments: Big and Small

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July 17 marked the 25th anniversary of TWA Flight 800’s explosion and crash during takeoff. Wreckage plunged into the Atlantic Ocean off the coast of Center Moriches, New York, on the south shore of Long Island. All 230 people on board were killed.

In the days that followed, more than 5,000 family members, federal investigators, and news reporters descended on this town of 6,000 residents. And today, there are memorials and plaques at the Smith Point and Center Moriches beaches dedicated to those who died in the crash. But there are unseen, spiritual consequences, also, that remain in people’s lives.

St. John the Evangelist Parish in Center Moriches was at the heart of this tragedy. Six members of the parish were on the plane. The pastor, Fr. Jim, quickly opened the church and school buildings for whatever relief services were needed. He celebrated Mass every day to comfort workers and victims’ families during this terrible time. Parts of Fr. Jim’s daily homilies were featured each night on national news broadcasts. He often spoke about the cross of Jesus as the only way to make sense of such suffering.

Parishioners stepped forward in large numbers to serve investigators, media and families in any way they could. A few months later, at an evangelistic Ash Wednesday service, parents of a young woman who had died in the crash spoke about the hope they felt in Jesus Christ, through Fr. Jim and the people of St. John’s.  Fr. Jim also spoke later, “This is the worst of times for our parish! It is one of the most difficult situations I have ever faced. Yet I realized something while I was praying–that maybe this is one of those ‘evangelizing moments’ we learned about. Maybe this is a moment rich with opportunities to evangelize people to Jesus Christ and to him crucified!”

Yes. This was a big “evangelizing moment.” But within the parish’s response were hundreds of small acts of faith and love. And, yes. Even today, there are still more moments presented to all of us in everyday life, if we pay attention to the Holy Spirit working in, around, and among us. Some opportunities are hidden in small and large tragedies, others present themselves as opportunities for small acts of kindness.

For example, a close friend, named Norman, headed off for a routine appointment with his neurologist, even though he felt dizzy and was experiencing low blood pressure. During the visit, Norman asked the nurse to check his pressure again. She took it a few times; then told his wife to take him to the Emergency Department immediately! Half a dozen tests later, he was admitted to the hospital with a diagnosis of A-fib and heart failure.

During Norman’s echocardiogram, the technician, Sally, asked him what he did for a living. He explained that he was retired, but volunteered to help Catholics learn how to evangelize inactive Catholics and the unchurched. At the end of the test, Sally explained that she was a convert to Catholicism and had wondered why Catholics weren’t more active in sharing their faith. During their conversation Sally took notes, especially about the website www.catholicevangelizer.com  and the Facebook page, “Holy Spirit Calling.” Norman left on a gurney, rejoicing over this small “evangelizing moment” and the grace to share faith and his excitement about evangelization.

Later, during Norman’s hospital stay, he asked a nurse about her decision to become a medical professional. She explained that her Catholic upbringing in her home country had led her to give her life to serve as a nurse. “But during the pandemic, I have been so sad that I could not go to Mass.” She asked what parish Norman belonged to. So, he shared what he liked about his parish and invited her to come to Mass there.

The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops summarize this awareness of “evangelizing moments” in their document, Go and Make Disciples: A National Plan and Strategy for Catholic Evangelization in the United States, “Each individual Catholic is to look at his or her everyday life from the viewpoint of evangelization. Take note of the many opportunities to support another’s faith, to share faith, and to help build up Jesus’ kingdom in our homes and workplaces, among our neighbors and friends.”

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Dare to Invite Others to Jesus, the Parish and the Mass

When it came time for Therese’s grandmother, Jeannia, to enter a nursing home, her family couldn’t find a facility with a Sunday Mass, like she wanted. At first, Jeannia was extremely disappointed. But as she settled in, she established a daily routine that revolved around a televised Mass and a noontime Rosary. She graciously invited anyone who missed their parish or needed consolation. Because of her enthusiasm, Grandma’s tiny room was always full.

She instinctively knew that a personal invitation is the keystone in bringing people to Jesus and his body, the Church. And our own deliberate invitations to “come and see,” will become even stronger when we offer to accompany a person to a gathering. In this way, we mirror God’s loving call to every person. And finally, invitations create a shared spiritual destination, even if they offer only a tiny step forward.

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Many Catholics stopped coming to Mass on Sunday during the pandemic. Along with inviting these individuals to return, we can also reach out to the 80-85% sacramentalized Catholics who were not pre-pandemic churchgoers. Testing the waters first might help though. Try wondering aloud with relatives, friends, and acquaintances about what brought despair or hope during the pandemic. Respect all responses.

A second, deeper question might be, “Where do you think God has been in all of this?” or “Did you try any of the televised Masses?” Keep in mind, many people stopped going to Mass because they do not get anything out of “it.” “The Eucharist is Jesus Christ Himself, both divine and human.  [who we can encounter at Mass.] The Eucharist is a ‘He,’ a Person, a divine Person.” ** We might include in our conversations one brief example of how we encountered Jesus during communal worship. Then listen again.

Listening without judgment to each person and responding to him or her with love is important. At the right time, a further question might be, “Can you share what going to church has been like for you in the past?” Labels, like fallen away, lapsed, or backsliding Catholic might best be left out of our conversations. Such terms can easily imply blame, rather than open doors to healing.

Here are some opportunities with spiritual potential for which you might extend an initial invitation:

  • Collecting food for parish-sponsored food pantries.
  • Community prayer services (small or large) for those who have lost family, jobs, or suffered breakdowns in relationships during the pandemic.
  • Visiting a neighbor in need together.
  • Participating in a parish walking group, exercise class, or a walk for hunger.
  • Service at a soup kitchen, food pantry, or homeless shelter.
  • Helping at a parish festival or seasonal gathering.
  • Online or in-person retreats, prayer groups, Bible studies, pilgrimages, or Masses.
  • Attending a Thanksgiving, Christmas, or Sunday Mass together.

Remember. Mass may not be the first or most appropriate starting invitation. Coming to one of these other activities might be a good beginning, especially if we follow-up by asking, “What was this experience like for you?” Then listen. Such open-ended conversations can bring relationships to a new and deeper spiritual level. Then Mass becomes easier as a second or third step. Now is the time. Many are hungry for community and spiritual compassion after a pandemic year of deprivation.

**(Dr. Peter Kreeft, Ph.D., Ask Peter Kreeft–The 100 Most Interesting Questions He’s Ever Been Asked: Sophia Institute Press).

(Find more about inviting others to Christ and the Church in Sharing the Faith That You Love by John and Therese Boucher)

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On the Threshold? Enter In!

If you looked down at the threshold of our home you might be very surprised that a previous owner used a yardstick to unite the hallway and the actual entrance into our apartment. This begs the question, “How do we mark our entry from one important reality to another?  From pandemic restrictions to long-lost freedoms? From time online to flesh and blood relationships? From doubt to faith in Jesus, the Christ?

We, ourselves, stand on the threshold of our 100th monthly post. Alleluia! Do we mark this achievement by collecting and updating the 20 to 25 most popular posts into a booklet? We need your input to decide. Here is an excerpt from one of these posts and a list of top subjects. Please visit Holy Spirit Calling to add your voice to our decision?

Threshold Conversations

May 29, 2014

The plane has landed. We are unpacked. Our brains are finally in gear. And best of all, is what we learned about sharing faith during the 78th NCCL (National Conference for Catechetical Leadership), especially from Sherry Weddell. She challenged us to engage in open-ended dialogue about life’s BIG questions, or what she calls a “threshold conversation” that can build a “bridge of trust” between two people. Here are some openers for these kinds of conversations: What gives you the strength to do such a good thing?  How have you died and risen today? Help me understand what you are thinking!  Tell me about the God you don’t believe in.  Tell me about your worship experience.  Do you suppose God had anything to do with your situation? And in response to “So what!” it may be appropriate to share a ‘so what’ moment of your own.

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