Evangelize by Walking Around

John takes daily walks in our neighborhood. Others walk in malls. Still others prefer spending “down time” in a cafeteria or a lounge. Perhaps Jesus even enjoyed walking as part of his “down time.” If so, we are inspired by the choices Jesus made while walking near someone like Zacchaeus, or the two shouting blind men in Matthew 20:29, or the children in Matthew 19:14.

One Sunday, our pastor shared his response to Pope Francis’s invitation to stop and give to the poor, without judging them. At first, Father was indignant, but then he realized it was God’s invitation as well.  John was moved by Father’s sharing. First, John began to really notice the homeless people begging in the streets where he walks. He responded by giving a dollar or two, whether passing by in a car or on foot. Each time he would ask the person’s name, so he could greet them by name later on.

Pope Francis calls this effort the “art of accompaniment,” whether while walking, or in a mall, or at a cafeteria.  As John’s relationships grew stronger, he would stop during his walk for a few minutes and ask one of the regulars, “What’s happening?” He learned that some live in the nearby woods. Some others are sick and without health insurance. Some are vets suffering from PTSD. Still others are alcoholics or drug addicts; some in recovery, some not. But all are on the sharp, bleeding edge of human survival.

And also, John prays for each one; before, during, and after their greetings or conversations. Most respond very well when he mentions that he is praying for them. If someone does, John considers a conversation about the presence or absence of God in his or her life. Once he prayed aloud with a twenty-two-year-old, homeless and severely disfigured man, for relief from an advanced form of stomach cancer. He admits that this kind of “walking” can sometimes be a frightening adventure, but John is happy to call the people that he has met his friends. Many now greet him with a smile and a “Hi, John!”  

Please pray with us for the people you are tempted to pass by on your walk through daily life. “Come, Holy Spirit, Father of the poor, the neglected, the lonely! Give me the Father’s eyes to see each one. Grant me the compassion of Jesus, as I accompany these sisters and brothers through daily life. Amen.”

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When Everything Is Falling Apart

Our friend, Lydia, is a nurse with five children who, as a child, had survived emotional and sexual abuse. Still, she worked long hours with much kindness, while raising her own four children. Then one day her husband developed a very serious heart condition. Lydia was overwhelmed. So, she turned to parish friends. They listened, babysat and prayed with her often, even daily, until two years later, when her husband died in surgery at the age of forty-two. More prayer and support was needed. Then after five more years, when Lydia had finally recovered, her teen-age son was murdered in a drug related incident. Lydia’s parish friends rose to the challenge again. They put into practice some of these suggestions for reaching out to someone experiencing life-altering needs, or difficult transitions.

  1. Choose ONE such person in your circle of family and friends to pray for every day. Speak to God in a way that is beyond your normal routine; standing, kneeling, speaking aloud or singing.
  2. Recall the ways Jesus reached out to someone in similar circumstances. Then picture Jesus beside this person.
  3. Choose one concrete way to offer regular, long-term support; a weekly phone call, a bi-weekly greeting card, or a small act of ongoing service that is meaningful to him or her.
  4. Realize your limits. It may take a whole small community to offer prayer-filled help together. Ask yourself if you are in a position to mobilize such a group.
  5. Whatever you do, respond with gentle compassion, or as Scripture puts it, “Do not break a bruised reed.” Matthew 12:20

By the grace of God and through her small faith sharing group, Lydia was able to seek out and forgive her son’s murderer. She also became a public advocate for abolishing the death penalty. One of her favorite prayers became, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion… who encourages us in our every affliction, so that we may be able to encourage those who are in any affliction with the encouragement with which we ourselves are encouraged by God.” (2 Cor. 1:3-4)

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Where is God: Near, Far or Nowhere?

Exploring your answers to this question, both in good times and in bad, is not easy. And it can be even more difficult to watch a friend wrestle with God’s often mysterious presence. For instance, when facing devastating loss, violence or isolation a first response is often, “Don’t you care, God? Why aren’t you here to stop this?”  And even when life is good, it is tempting to focus on enjoying ourselves and leaving Jesus out of the picture.

The truth is that having a fulfilling relationship with Father, Son and Holy Spirit means embracing a paradox. God is BOTH intimately close to us, and enticingly beyond us, no matter what happens. The challenge is to acknowledge these two realities, while moving a few steps closer to an awareness of God. Here are some suggestions to use when God seems absent.

  1. Acknowledge God, our Father and Creator, who is both as near as your next breath and yet magnificent enough to sustain the whole universe. A. Sit quietly for a few minutes, while inhaling with the words “My holy” and exhaling with the word “Father” or “Creator”. B. Walk in a park or woods and thank God for each bush, flower or cloud. C. Pray with nature photos on Instagram.
  2. Listen to Jesus-centered music A. Add songs to a playlist and sing in your car. B. Pray one or two songs when you wake up or go to sleep, like Dan Schutte’s song, “Yahweh, I Know you are Near”. C. Begin faith sharing conversations by reciting a favorite hymn with a friend.
  3. Search out the Holy Spirit’s presence in the Psalms, who helps us give voice to every human emotion. Psalms about feeling distant from God are in the beginning of the Book. Psalms about God, as the source of our joy, are near the end.
  4. Be patient when you pray. God is beyond imagining, emotions, or understanding. A. Ask the Holy Spirit to come into your heart. B. Cultivate gifts of awe and trust when Jesus seems distant. Remember, the Holy Spirit is not a vending machine, but an awesome and intriguing friend.
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